The Law of Attraction


 This is an article that was written by Walter Starke – one of my favorite authors. Please read and comment below

        This year the “The Secret” is sweeping the country. What it refers to as the secret is the Law of Attraction – that our thoughts attract or draw to us what our lives are made up of. The main value in proposing the law of attraction is that it lets people know that they create their own lives, that thoughts take form, that if one desires to change one’s life that person must change how they think, but the law of attraction goes only so far and tends to be a mental activity rather than a spiritual one. 

Of the four presenters in The Secret two were motivational speakers who approached the concept objectively and the other two proposed a more subjective spiritual approach.  Almost everything in the program was true from the level it represented, but because the difference between the spiritual and the mental approaches was not defined many have mistakenly thought they were the same.

        The law of attraction implies that we attract to us things that previously exist as though they have already been created. Those of the motivation or mental approach believe that one should envision what he or she specifically wants, draw a picture, project a specific amount they want to receive into thought etc.  This is the objective approach. It has a particular object or goal in mind.  What’s more, it works.  It is proved that we can mentally draw to us what we want.  However, such an objective approach is based on one’s ability to judge what is good for them to have and what may be evil.

        Someone may want a sporty BMW convertible.  He or she can image it. See how it looks, picture the details, and, sure enough, they may achieve their goal.  They may also drive down to the corner, get in a wreck, and kill themselves.  If intuition backs up one’s judgment it might work out for the best, but the spiritual approach is less fallible.

Surprisingly, today, Quantum Mechanics supports and scientifically explains the spiritual approach that is outlined in the beginning of the Gospel of John, which says, “In the beginning is the word … and the word becomes flesh.” In doing so, Quantum physics proposes that consciousness is the substance of all that is, that consciousness creates everything in our lives rather than it’s having been drawn to us from outside. Thus we do not attract to us, but rather we ourselves create our lives and all that is in them.  We materialize our perceptions.  The quality of the forms our lives take is determined not by what we think superficially but by what we perceive as reality.  Our perceptions manifest our reality.

          We, as thinking people, do not know what is needed or in store for our growth and well being.  What we think we want to attract may be the thing that kills us in the end.  On the other hand, when we entertain subjective (spiritual) ideas or ideals and do not outline them in specific terms (objectively), we initiate the same principle that is in the Law of Attraction; however, rather than drawing to us, our divine inner selves creates that which is harmonious and in divine order.

Spiritually, rather than trying to attract a particular person into our lives we set in motion the consciousness of perfect companionship. Subjectively, instead of praying for a thousand dollars we open ourselves to life’s abundance knowing our needs will be well met. Subjectively, instead of trying to draw forth a specific automobile we open our consciousness to the best and most appropriate transportation.

I promise you, if we trust the process and set subjective goals for ourselves we will be shown how to create them or they will appear, and will do so without any down side.  That which will appear will be the result of our trust in the process and our perception.  It is all God.

 

a friend writes about the Secret, The Law of Attraction

The Bigger Secret

By Scott Kalechstein

The Secret is out, way out. Those who have been entrenched in feelings of powerlessness are finding their mojo by applying its principles. Yay to the setting of intentions, the power of positive thinking, and the wondrous Law of Attraction! Yay to manifesting a perfect soul mate, the ideal income, and our wildest dreams! Rock on, minds of mankind!

And while I am glad it has become so popular, I do have a few further thoughts to add to the conversation. When it comes to the Law of Attraction, I’m a bit of an out-law. To me it’s a little piece of the truth, and in the minds of egos wanting to play God, that can be a little dangerous. I believe that letting people in on the creative power of thought without also giving equal emphasis to the Law of Allowing is a bit like teaching people inhaling without letting them in on an intimate and inseparable part of the process – exhaling!

To put it simply, the Law of Attraction is about how to get what you want. The Law of Allowing is about appreciating what you get; in other words, letting go and letting God, or seeking ye first the Kingdom. When applied together, these Laws bring balance to the active and receptive male and female energies found within each of us.

It’s no secret that getting what you want doesn’t automatically lead to lasting fulfillment. If that were the case, the bathroom cabinets of the married, rich, and famous would not be filled with such an abundant supply of expensive anti-depression and anti-anxiety medication.

A Course In Miracles puts it bluntly: “The world I see holds nothing that I want.”

Yet we all want what we want. But what’s up with all this wanting? While wanting can be defined as desiring, it is also synonymous with lacking. “The Lord is my Shepard, I shall not want” means that when we surrender our attachment to a specific outcome and trust in the benevolence of the universe, we shall not lack. And that is the Law of Allowing.

When we get rigidly attached to a desired outcome, however, we are coming from the assumption that we are not whole beings until we get what we want. And that’s an illusion that life delights in coaxing us to let go of.

Thaddeus Golas, in The Lazy Man’s Guide to Enlightenment, says “There is a good attitude to take towards any goal: It’s nice if it happens, nice if it doesn’t.” Does that mean we are to be detached from having passion? No, just detached from craving an outcome, from thinking there is some tear in the fabric of God’s perfection that needs to be stitched before we can fully enjoy being alive.

I love watching dogs run after seagulls on the beach. They set their sights on a flock and then are focused, single-minded, and even quite passionate about running down a bird. At the same time, they are very fulfilled in the thrill of the chase, having a tremendous amount of fun just frolicking on the beach. Going home without having caught a bird doesn’t for one moment diminish their love of life.

When we realize that just being alive is the gift that keeps on giving, we may pursue our own gulls just as passionately, but far less frantically. We value the process as much as the intended outcome. We embrace whatever we encounter along the trip with loving arms open wide enough to be grateful for it all.

When we have tasted the nectar of a fulfillment that is not dependent on the outside world granting us our desires, we realize that life is blessing us as much when we don’t get what we want as when we do. In those times we get to practice being friends with reality, letting go of our adversarial position to what is. A heavy burden is lifted each time we release the arrogant assumption that we are in possession of the big picture perspective enough to really know what our highest good is supposed to look like. We get to more thoroughly chew on yet another spiritual slice of humble pie A Course In Miracles invites us to digest: “I don’t perceive my own best interests.”

There’s nothing wrong with having goals and using the Law of Attraction to manifest them. Yet you can attain the world, only to have your achievements magnify and intensify your inner turmoil. An ego’s basic condition of lack, that nagging sense of ‘not enough-ness,’ cannot be overcome by worldy success. When Jesus said his Kingdom is not of this world, he was speaking for all of us.

Even my mother, a devout, practicing atheist, will exclaim after the first bite of some fabulous dessert, “Out of this world!” (It has been said that there are no atheists in foxholes, and I would venture to add that there also aren’t any biting into Junior’s New York cheesecake!)

The Bigger Secret is that there is a state of being available to us that is not of this world. Echoes of it visit us ever so briefly; the first few morsels of cheesecake, the first few mouthfuls of romantic love, and other fleeting moments of satisfaction. For some people who consistently choose to practice “Seek ye first the Kingdom”, that state sets up shop and sticks around as part of the fabric. It becomes the foundation of a sense of self rooted in eternity.

That’s what I want, to abide in a love that is not of this world. Perhaps that’s what we all want, even when we are seeking to manifest things of this world.

Have you had enough of a sense of not enough? Do you want out of the state of wanting that always leaves us wanting more? Let’s remember together: “I am as God created me, and I am free, whole and complete as I am. I am enough, I have enough, and I do enough. I wake up from the dream of lack. I am drenched in abundance at all times. Every sunrise is proof of my infinite wealth, every breath is a miracle, and all is supremely and eternally well.”

When that state of enoughness takes root in you and permeates your being, you will most probably be moved to chase some gulls and have some fun.

Gangway… I’ll see you on the beach!

“Those who bind themselves to a joy
Doth thy winged life destroy
But those who kiss the joy as it flies
Live in eternity’s sunrise
-William Blake

Scott Kalechstein is an aspiring ambassador of The Bigger Secret. He is known and celebrated (and sometimes tolerated) for his playful and passionate propensity for alliteration. In addition, he is a traveling minister, a Life Coach, a modern day troubadour, and an inspirational speaker. He travels the United States, Canada, Africa, and Europe giving concerts, talks and workshops, as well as presenting at conferences. Please visit www.scottsongs.com ( Linked text) to find out more and to sample songs. You can also sign up there for his free muse-letters to receive articles like this one on a bi-monthly basis.

Oprah reveals “The Secret” Dr. Toni LaMotta comments

This coming Thursday, Oprah will host Rhonda Byrne, executive Producer of “The Secret” and several members of the ‘cast’. “The Secret” is a wonderful film and if you haven’t yet seen it, you can check it out on http://www.thesecret.tv

The Secret – which hasn’t been a secret to me in the last 12 years, is the Law of Attraction. This film is actually just the beginning of understanding the Law. On surface viewing, it can look like it’s all about material possessions. I’ve actually watched it 6 times already and intend to watch it over and over, because each time I hear/see something a bit different.

My understanding of the Law of Attraction is that it is absolute. What you focus on, increases. Whatever that is. I’ve discovered exactly why my life is what it is – the parts I love and the parts I’d like to see differently. It’s all about what I think/feel/focus on. So much of this is unconscious and I have found my work as a teacher and spiritual life coach is to help people unravel what they are continually saying to themselves that is creating the life they have.

I’d love to hear your experience on using the Law of Attraction and on watching “The Secret”.