What Women Want Others to Know… leading up to Midlife

Twenties Women are fearfully young and glowing.
Twenties Women Want Others to Know

I am intelligent and I have much to offer.
Take me seriously and teach me what you want me to know.
I am passionate about my life and what I can offer the world.
I am afraid I will not be able to live that the life I want.
I worry I will not find a mate, have children, and be happy.
I get confused about want I want and what others seem to want for me.
I am eager to find my path and I need mentors to guide me.
I want friends and people I can trust and with whom I can be myself.
I don’t understand how to handle women who compete in negative ways.
I have so many dreams and want them all to come true.
I get overwhelmed with all my new responsibilities and just want to be a “kid” again.

Thirties Women are doing a great balancing act.
Thirties Women Want Others to Know

How important my career is to me.
It is hard for me to sacrifice my career and friends for my family’s needs.
I feel tired all the time.
I feel confused about the changes in my body.
It is hard for me to depend on a man.
I worry about failing my family, my work, and my community.
I don’t want people to find out that I am not as caring as I should be.
I am scared that I’ll make poor decisions about my family’s well-being.
I worry that I will be found out as a fake who is plagued by constant doubts.
I feel guilty that sometimes I want to run away and leave it all behind.
I get overwhelmed with all my new responsibilities and just want to be a “kid” again.
You can learn more about the challenges and successes of Twenties and Thirties Women in my groundbreaking new book, Timeless Women Speak: Feeling Youthful At Any Age.

Dr. Nancy O’Reilly, PsyD
Clinical Psychologist and Founder of The WomenSpeak Project
Visit us at http://www.womenspeak.com for great tips

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